You will never be perfect-and the truth is, it's not worth the effort. Perfectionism is born from insecurity, and those insecurities drive you to chase the unachievable, leaving you exhausted, unfulfilled, and still searching. Your attachment issues shouldn't be running your life. Do you find yourself working endlessly at relationships, only to end up with the same pain, the same disappointments, and the same ache for change? Maybe it's time to stop the mental gymnastics. With the guidance of behavioral expert Tracy Crossley M.A., you'll discover a new way-one that stops you from waiting for someone else to change and instead teaches you to live from a deeply loving place within yourself. When you understand what's happening inside you, everything changes. The practical, step-by-step exercises in this book will walk you through dismantling the negative beliefs and unhealthy patterns that keep you stuck. You'll learn how to take responsibility for your choices without blame, build your true sense of worth, and connect to your emotions in a way that frees you to attract the relationships-and the life-you actually want. Being an anxious avoidant does not define who you are. This book will help you see yourself clearly, break free from insecurity, and move toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships… and a happier you.
