I spent those years ignoring my own problems and trying to rescue everyone else. I had been socially programmed to be a rescuer by my family. Rescuing was part of my family-culture and ran through our DNA going back at least four generations. My grandfathers were rescuers too, and like me, their rescuing behaviours destroyed relationships and cost lives. My rescuing behaviours cost me two marriages, both ending in divorce, and left me burned-out and broke without food for my children on Christmas Eve.
This is my story about how I chose to rescue myself first, break free of social conditioning and became a Rescuer-in-Recovery. I went from being burned-out and broke to living a thriving new life, writing a #1 Amazon best-seller and stepping into my own sovereign power. This book will show you the path to RESCUE YOURSELF FIRST and how we can get a new perspective on our blind-spots, and find the gold in them,
• Why we can gain from understanding our limiting beliefs installed in childhood,
• How unlocking our unconscious is the key to becoming a rescuer-in-recovery, and,
• What actions we can take to get the right kind of help that sets us up to build a new thriving life.
I help strong men and powerful women who have a deep-desire to make a positive difference in the world to learn to rescue themselves first. To overcome their unconscious negative self-beliefs and to choose to live a new vibrant life that they love. To become the person that they were always meant to be. One of my friends said to me once, "You're the first coach I've met that I don't want to punch in the face." She could bench press close to 100 kilos, so I'm really happy she didn't. And it is one of my proudest recommendations.
