LOVING is GREETED here- a straight forwarded purgatorial journey as an invitation to face complex issues of the human odyssey: Who am I? How do I want to BE? What can WE BE as human beings? What’s it all about to BE equitable now? LOVING here distinguishes soul-coring intimacy from falling in love, eloquently explores by Toni Morrison’s examples of misused Love, and ex[posed as abuse love for the kingdom by King Lear’s Usurpation of three daughters love with promises of privilege and parental regard; these misuses of LOVING and Being IN LOVING murder humanity’s jazzin; for kincaring. This narrative rejects such UNLOVING scripts and habits as it offers antidotes with LOVING content and tools for equitable kincaring IN LOVING